Monday, April 11, 2011
What Then?
Friday, April 01, 2011
Books I own, but have not read.....
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Isi Life Mein - Youth is calling!
Robert Kennedy said “This world demands the qualities of youth: not a time of life but a state of mind, a temper of the will, a quality of imagination, a predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the life of ease.” That to me defines precisely what the youth of today stand for.
Coming to the big screen this December is the latest offering from the Rajshri stables, “Isi Life Mein”. Without spoiling any surprises and giving out the story, let me just say that the movie promises to exude youthfulness in all its glory.
The title of the movie screams it out loud and clear: Most of us have just this one life (if we’re lucky, that is) and we have to make the most of it within our allotted life span.
Whether we accept it or not, most of us have that one dream – this dream could be anything, be it going to space, becoming a scientist, a world renowned musician etc. And these dreams get created since the time the coils in our minds get well oiled to life on earth. The majority manage to get through their lives and let their dreams drown in the routine of “growing up” (akin to the poor pickles in a dinner plate being heaped with the other and more happening buffet items) and get into the usual rut of what society feels is the way to be (quote unquote). And then there are those very select few who live with a single minded objective of achieving what they want – it is for such people that Rhonda Brynes “Secret” holds true; the universe conspires to help them get where they want to be.
“Isi Life Mein” is a reminder of what the youth of today stand for; they have a dream and they go for it with all they have. Along the pathway to glory, there are many words going against them, mostly from well meaning but ill informed sources in the form of parents, elders and well wishers. The trick is to be able to separate the grain from the chaff and that is what our youngsters are best at. You can count on them to be able to find the best solutions to all their problems as long as the proper means are visible.
At the same time, the Indianness element is very strongly ingrained in our youth and you would see that in spite of setting out to achieve what they want to, tradition and culture still figure on their list of “In” things.
Another moot point is that it takes one to know one. Its amazing how two people who have disparate aims in life can act as catalysts to each other and just by sheer dint of being there when it counts, can help the other succeed. The best part is that they don’t even need to share similarities in terms of background, upbringing or caste and creed. It’s the common resolve of wanting to get some place (not figuratively) that binds them on common ground.
Youth movies have been done to death, some good, some bad and some ugly. What differs is the treatment of the topic and this time round, Rajshri showcases something different. “Isi Life Mein” has 2 young people making their debut with a young woman at the director’s helm. With such a strong youth quotient in play and given the track record of young director’s in the recent past, this one should be a must-watch for all those new age movie viewers with a discerning eye. I have a feeling Robert Kennedy would have watched this one and said, “This is EXACTLY what I meant!!” So go watch this one and celebrate the determination of our youth – Dec 24th is the date and I will definitely be out there in line with many others. Cast and crew of ILM, good luck & best wishes!
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Independence?
Let's make this year the year when we take steps to be able to call ourselves truly free.
Our country is poised on the brink of destiny; there are a million things we have going for us in all spheres of life. Likewise there are quite a few deterrants which, if we let them, can pull us back into the abyss.
As always, its all upto us! We, the people. We have to make that one choice. So make it now and make it count.
While not a perfect analogy, a few lines from a song in "Taare Zameen Par" come to mind:
Khul gaya aasmaan ka rasta dekho khul gaya
Mil gaya kho gaya tha jo sitara mil gaya
Roshan hui saari zameen
Jagmag hua saara jahaan
Oh udne ko tu aazad hai
bandhan koi ab hai kahan...
That says it for me. Here's to independence. Jai Hind!
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Sunday, August 08, 2010
You make my day....
You make my day when I see you give me a loving look – one that only I understand…
You make my day when I see you laugh aloud at something I’ve said and you’ve found funny…
You make my day when you tell me that I’m looking good….You make my day when you tell me that you are hungry or you want to eat something specific and when I’m able to get it for you….in fact you make my day even when you just tell me you’re hungry…
You make my day when you send me even a single line sms….You make my day when you look deep into my eyes and all I can see is love and affection….
You make my day when you get me something useful when I’m least expecting it…
You make my day when you are so concerned about my well being….
You make my day when you share normal everyday events of your day with me…..
You make my day when you remember words we’ve exchanged or moments we’ve shared and happily remind me of them….
You make my day when you just simply hold my hand in yours…..
You make my day when you behave like a child who wants to be pampered….also when you pamper me sometimes….
You make my day when you ask me to help you with little things that you find it tough to do….
You make my day when I see you bond with my close friends and make them your own too….
My day is made when we share small things that give us joy, a good book or movie, a game, discussions about our friends and loved ones, or simply appreciate something beautiful...
My day is made when I see the divine little being that is lil S….just knowing she will forever be a part of us…
I could go on and on but even the few things I’ve listed here are enough to make every day of my life so worth it…..
Please keep making my day…..just by being you…..
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Happy Birthday, Sherry!
Two days back you completed one glorious month on planet Earth. While you might not have realized it yet, you have changed both Mommy's and Daddy's life in more ways that you could ever imagine. Now, it is very difficult to imagine what we were like before you came. Life has turned a full circle and we are so thankful to have you with us.
Your first month has been filled with special moments, moments that we keep trying to capture forever. While we were partly successful there are many such moments that will live on in our memories always. I never thought I could spend hours looking at someone sleep and still not get bored and in fact, that it would be such a treat to watch. I have sat for those hours watching those tiny flickers of expressions on your beautiful face, yet so innocent and untouched. You smile, you cry, you pucker your lips, you stretch like a tiny cat, you go all red from the effort of stretching, you wipe your face, you frown, you arch your eyebrows..... these are just a few of the many other things you do when you sleep, all of these get transposed on my mind to be retained forever.
Many people over the centuries have waxed about the pleasures of being a father or parent. I've read about the feeling in so many different places myself. But I could have never imagined the profound emotions that run through me when I hold you in my arms. You feel so fragile, delicate and pretty that I am scared I might inadvertently hurt you. Affection that I never knew existed within me flows through just for you. I know that these moments will never come back again and what we are sharing now is something special, a bond that will never go away.
You have brought so much joy to us all, including your grandparents (both sets of them), your chacha and your maasi. It is both so funny and endearing to see them all watch you with the same moony expression. In a way, you have strengthened the love that always existed between all of us. Thank you for that, baby!
Am looking forward to the years to come which I am sure will be made special by you in one way or the other. Cheers to that!!!
Love,
Daddy
What does it take to be nice?
Let me try and ask some questions as to what it would take for someone to be "nice" in certain situations:
1. What does it take to smile and say "thank you" to the rickshaw / taxi driver who drops you to where you want to go? Agreed, you have paid him his due fare but even then, what does a smile cost you?
2. What does it take to get up and offer your seat to a senior citizen / a lady whose expecting or lady with too many bags / a small child in a crowded bus or train when you yourself might be better off than them?
3. What does it take it stop your vehicle for a moment and allow people trying to get across a busy intersection on foot to cross over?
4. How much would it cost for you to hold the door open for the person coming right behind you while entering any place especially when you know the door is going to abruptly swing back after you have passed through?
5. Is it really difficult to not reach negatively after certain people say something not so nice about someone behind their backs and instead clarify the issue out with the individual in question?
6. How tough would it be for you to own up to something you were responsible for rather than passing the blame on to someone who was not even aware of the situation?
7. Would it be very difficult for you to offer your help to someone who was trying to do something you are very good at and they are not at all able to do it?
8. Can you graciously accept a compliment from someone you barely know without first suspecting that person about wanting something from you?
9. How difficult would it be for you to not snap at your loved ones, especially your parents / siblings / spouse when it is YOU who is tired and they ask you something without realizing that you may not be in the mood to answer them then?
10. If someone got something you coveted and did not get, would you be able to feel genuine happiness for that person, especially if they are friends of yours?
11. When was the last time you helped someone without expecting anything back and felt all the better for it?
Am not asking anyone to answer these questions in public. We are all adults and can think like adults. Only thing is some of us either forget it or choose to overlook it sometimes. Its not very evident in day-to-day life but the person who can honestly do all of the above is a much happier person.
Sunday, February 01, 2009
A Tag off the beaten track!
Saturday, January 24, 2009
The Second Woman in my life!!!!!!
Ok, ok, I can't hold it back anymore! This mystery woman is none other than my cute little 2.65 kg bundle of joy who made her presence felt in this world at exactly 3:57 pm!!! And yes, while I am still not expressing it and shouting it from the rooftops, I am ecstatic with pure unadulaterated joy!! :-)
I can't express the feeling when I cradled the tiny helpless little being in my arms for the very first time! I had a lump in my throat when I saw those perfectly formed contours - the eyes, the pursed lips, the fingers and well everything.
So there it is, out in the open, my "other" woman! Cheers!!!
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Another Award

The rules for this are:
1. Put the logo on your blog
2. Add a link to the person who awarded you.
3. Nominate 10 other blogs.
4. Add links to those blogs on yours.
5. Leave a message for your nominees on their blogs.
So here goes:
1. Shruthi
2. Kavita
3. Lak
4. Galadriel
5. Lemonade
6. Uber-T
Above are 6 of the coolest I know, be it blog or person. And of course Pixie, you too! So, come and pick up your awards. :)
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Hello 2009!
And it is our lot as human beings to make what we can out of it.
Enough of thinking and rationalizing. Enough of contemplating over what has been. Enough of new year resolutions that are broken within the first month of the year.
Its time to look ahead. Time to make a fresh start. Time to make our presence felt. Time to bring a smile onto the faces of those who haven't seen those many.
Simple things, small efforts. That's all it will take from so called "thinking" individuals like us. But the results will be there for everyone to see. A smile passing from one face to another. Travelling a whole sea of people - a literal revolution of happiness. That's my buzz word for 2009. A smile for everyone.
Happy New Year to all. May this year bring peace, love and happiness to all of you. Keep smiling. :) there I've started it. I feel better for it now. :)
Friday, December 26, 2008
My 1st Blogger Awards!


While this may seem funny, but it sure is a tough thing to live up to reputations and a reputation (good or bad) is one thing you do build when you maintain a blog with any kind of readership (in my case, a miniscule but precious one!). So all I can say is that I'll do my best to be more active on here. I've suddenly realized what a powerful medium this of getting my thoughts across and inviting thoughts from others.
And of course I want to pass this award on to a few bloggers I think deserve these and many more:
Shruthi (I really don't need to say why, her blog says it all)
Galadriel (hers is a extremely thoughtful blog)
Lemonade (I was never as articulate when I was her age)
Pixie (just for giving me the awards - lol, am joking, she has a amazing way of using the most simple language of getting her points across with force)
Uber-T (extremely clued in guy - his posts are really classy; be it technology or general, I like the way his opinion seems to carry a lot of weight)
Compliments of the season to all! :-)
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas!
While I continued my walk / jog, my mind flew back to the days when I was in school. Mine was a convent school and for boys only at that. Christmas was a big deal in the school and since the Christmas vacation was usually given from Dec 24th to Jan 1st, the Christmas celebration was held either on the 23rd or the last school day prior to the 24th.
I remember that day with fond memories. We all used to wait for that day with bated breath. It did not matter that my school comprised of as many non Catholics as Catholics. The spirit of the day got to us all in equal measure.
The day used to start with a couple of periods which noone really minded as we all knew what was to follow. At around 9 am there would be an announcement on the PA system asking us to assemble in the school's open air auditorium at sharp 9.20. Before we left the class however, we were given a goodie bag each; this usually contained a samosa, a pattice, a Monginis Slice Cake, some sweets, a Mango Frooti tetrapack and a small Christmas present.simple stuff but we still loved it - goes to show that even then we appreciated the spirit of the occassion. Lugging this bag and / or munching on the snacks, we would file into the auditorium with our class teachers making sure we behaved ourselves.
In the audi, which was really open air with a big covered stage at one end, we would be seated on rugs on the ground itself. On such days, the lucky ones were those whose classes were led out first and so got the front rows. In about 5 mins time, when all of us were settled, the curtain would go up. The first item on the agenda was always the principal's address. It was always based on some element of Christmas be it goodness, piety, kindness etc. He sure held our attention for those 15 to 20 mins!
The speech was followed by the traditional Cristmas play depicting the birth of Jesus Christ. All the works were there, cows, goats, sheep, donkeys, the 3 wise men, some people of different nationalities etc etc. All the props used in the play were made by the students themselves.
An interesting (I hope) aside: yours truly made his stage debut (and exit as well) in one of these productions when in the 6th standard. This role of a lifetime had me essay the character of a donkey, yes you read right, in the play. The specifics of the part required me wear this huge face fask (again, made by me at home and yes, it did look like a donkey's face), kneel on all fours in the manger, next to Christ's crib along with a cow, a sheep and some goats and sway my head from left to right throughout the duration of the play. To top it all, I actually enjoyed myself though my knees were sore at the end of it. :)
In any case, the play was always well received and was the highlight of the morning. We watched the same sequence every year but never got tired of it. It was always a joy to watch Christ come into the world.
Post the play, there would be some musical performances by some gifted pupils. I particularly remember a tabla performance by one of my batchmates as being exceptionally brilliant! Usually after these, the principal and the headmistress would would wish us a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year signifying the end of the day and the start of the vacation. And we would rush home to spread the cheer.
Nothing extravagant but even then it filled our young hearts with joy. I guess it is that very same joy which persists in my heart even today. That very same joy which still warms my being every Christmas, that makes Christmas special! Merry Christmas! Peace and love be with you!
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Motherhood?
Off late, I've realized that there is yet another angle to this story. Something a guy can only ever imagine but never really be a part of (unless he goes way out to make it happen). Motherhood! The actual experience of carrying a real living being inside your body for 9 months.
Off late, I've started wondering what it would feel like to feel those little movements within yourself - movements not controlled or made by you. Movements that keep reminding you that you are never really alone. There is someone with you who depends entirely on you. Someone who is created completely from you and yet completely separate from you. Someone living, someone who in about a year's time would have a distinct identity in our world, who would leave his or her mark wherever they go.
We, as men, can only be part of this life altering experience second hand. Maybe feel the movements by placing a gentle hand against our wives' womb. But we can never get that feeling of astonishment, glee, exhilaration, warmth and the bond of privacy that a mother can with her unborn child. It is something we can imagine, maybe yearn for but never achieve. Unless, as I've pointed out before, you go the way where maybe only one man has gone before (we read recently about a gay guy pregnant for the second time). And that is something which is open for speculation - as to how many men, given the opportunity would even want to think of doing something of that kind.
This post is dedicated to all those women who have or will give birth! I at least, think you're privileged.
Recent Acquisitions
- The latest from J. K. Rowling's stable - The Tales of Beedle The Bard
- Free with the above - Magnificient Beasts & Where To Find Them (this is an abridged version of the text book with the same name prescribed at Hogwarts for Care of Magical Creatures class)
- A Suitable Boy - by Vikram Seth
- All 3 books in the Bartimaeus trilogy by Jonathan Stroud viz. The Amulet of Samarkand, The Golem's Eye & Ptolemy's Gate
- Lashkar - by Mukul Deva
- Duma Key - by Stephen King
Am sure there are some more that I'm missing out now seeing am awfully sleepy! So many books to read and so little time... sigh! :-)
Thursday, November 27, 2008
A city under ransom!
All these feelings and more. Once more, terror has jolted us out of our existence and made its presence felt. A miniscule group of heavily armed militants are holding a city of more than 3 million to ransom.
No one knows to what end. Television channels keep reporting about 100 people held hostage at the Taj and Trident hotels. But what about the families of those inside. What of the lakhs of Mumbaikars as also the countless Indians who are so affected by this? All of our lives are at a standstill until this issue goes to its logical conclusion.
A feeling of helplessness pervades. Numbness to how close this has been.
Last night around 8.45 pm I drove from my office in Vakola to my home in Borivli passing along the Western Express Highway. Exactly 50 minutes after I'd passed the spot, a taxi exploded with a bomb of immense proportions there. The remains if one could call them remains shown on TV were so gruesome I can only imagine the intentions of the perpetrators.
About 10 months back, my previous organzation had organized its annual sales convention on board the Superstar Libra cruiseliner. We were in total a group of 1600 in number and were to board the ship from the Green Gate at Mumbai docks. Since the boarding was to happen only at 6 pm, we were in the interim all waiting in the Grand Ballroom at the very Oberoi which since yesterday has been stormed by terrorists. Likewise the Taj has been something we've always looked upto, aspired to enter someday on our own steam, a landmark of sorts.
And now this, the unbelievable but unshakeable truth about all 3 locations.
We've spent the whole day at home glued to the TV seeing the horror unfold, hoping and praying a semblance of normalcy returns. My folks are wary about my going to work even tomorrow. What kind of lives are we leading when even our day to day life is so affected on such a regular basis.
So many lives lost, so many injured and so many affected. Will all this ever end? I don't know. I guess noone really answer this for me. All I can think of is what we can do to mitigate risks as these. Is there a permenant solution? Again I don't know, but I would surely like to know what you feel about all this.
Let's hope the brave men and women battling even as I type this emerge the victors without any further losses.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
I, Me, Myself
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Things I love!
Since am still indulging myself in the Diwali atmosphere and there is a general feeling of happiness and contentment in me, this list is of things I love. Ok, I'll even admit, I got inspired seeing a similar post on Pixie's blog.
1. A baby's toothless grin;
2. Someone you care for and miss calling out of the blue;
3. Being part of a Mexican wave in a cricket match at Mumbai's Wankhede stadium;
4. The Friday before a long weekend filled with nice things to do;
5. Leaving office on a weekday evening and finding the roads mysteriously free of traffic;
6. Lying to S about my ETA home from work, beating it by a huge margin and seeing her smile;
7. Receiving a gift; even better, giving a gift; :-)
8. Playing cricket with ollllddddd building friends after ages and still experiencing the same thrill;
9. Discovering a old, much loved but forgotten book somewhere at home & reading it again;
10. The smell of freshly brewed coffee & tea;
11. Tiny little puppies, blind but very much alive!!!;
12. Going to my college campus and sitting on the same bench in the ground where we used to sit after bunking classes;
13. Sitting in the Siddhivinayak temple close to my house in the afternoons; it is so peaceful that all troubles seem to dissolve;
14. The feeling just before going on a long vacation;
15. The feeling just before reaching "home-sweet-home" after the vacation;
16. Holding S's finger while walking in our colony or even crossing the road;
17. Knowing my parents are proud of what their sons are doing;
18. Feeling the sand under my feet on a Goan beach;
19. A night of Pictionary with close friends with a lot of cheating thrown in;
20. Waking early on a holiday, waiting for the others to wake up with a good book in hand;
21. Entering the house and smell the aromas of cooking food and guessing the name of the delicacy;
22. Sitting in a train with loved ones on my way to a destination I have never been to before;
This is not a tag but its always good to read this kind of list for different people. You realize that you actually love so many more things which may not have come to the fore in your own list. So go for it and let me know when you write yours! Wishing everyone a very Happy Diwali (belated) and a great year to follow!!!
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Is It Worth it????
This is one of the closing dialogues in one of my favourite movies: The Lord of the Rings - The Two Towers, spoken by Sam Gamgee to Frodo Baggins. And it never fails to touch me, however many times I hear it.
In today's world, everyday one hears mostly about terrorist acts in some place on the globe. There are everyday acts of crime taking place in broad daylight. Administration is going to the dogs. Politics is supposed to be one of the most corrupt professions in the country. And corruption has not spared any other professions too, be it sport, medicine, industry, cinema etc. Most of our cities wallow in filth, bad roads, bad infrastructure; you name it and you will find it. Rural India and in some cases urban as well is still rife with instances of dowry burnings, female infanticide, child marriages. In our metros, youngsters are going the way of rave parties, drugs, underage sex and every such vice which is considered "hip" and "cool". Citizens complain of lack of basic amenities, crowded roads & public transport, of how the government is not doing anything at all to better the situation. In short, its chaos everywhere you look.
In the midst of such times, it is so very easy to get disillusioned. Its very easy to get cynical and go with the flow. The feeling of "does it really matter what I think, what difference does it make anyway" supercedes everything else. And one more brain, one more heart falls into the trap of so-called civilization as we know it.
The answer is NO. They are the same as all of us. They are no different in any possible way you can think of. Its only that they believe in the fact that there is still a chance to make a difference, to bring about a positive change in the system. That small things go on to contribute to the larger whole. That we are still not beyond redemption. Which is where the line I started with comes in.
This is the line I get reminded of when:
1. I see a baby's toothless grin
2. A completely unknown person gives me a hand to pull me into a running train
4. A brash collegian driving a vehicle at 90 kmph stopping to allow a old lady to cross the street
5. Seeing a little girl sell flowers or some such thing at a traffic signal & still have a dazzling smile reminiscent of a Bollywood beauty.
6. The way Mumbaikar's reached out to help stranded people during the recent and not so recent catastrophes like the July 26th floods and the Mumbai serial blasts.
7. How one can always find 2-3 helping hands ready to help you push your stranded vehicle.
8. The motive for the umpteen number of individuals who have devoted their lives solely to make this world a better place to live in.
All these and many more splashes of bright colours in an otherwise drab and flawed world make it worth the effort! Because every little deed contributes to the larger good.
Let us also make an attempt to add some colour in whatever way possible. While on its own, it may not be something significant enough to be noticed by the whole world, at least within our own self we would know that it was all worth it and someplace someone would have a smile on their face! :-)
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
National Integration at its Yummiest!
In any case, it would be great to know what the “must eat” dishes from different states are because if in case you do get the chance to visit sometime, you should be able to ask for those yourself.
The list below is dedicated to all those foodies who do not mind seeking out the most obscure places in order to sample the local cuisine. J For easier reference, it has been categorized state-wise.
Kashmir – Gustaba, Tabak Maz, Dum Aloo, Haak or Karam ka Saag
Punjab – Dal Makhani, Makki di Roti – Sarson da Saag, Chana – Bhatura, Amritsari Macchi and Kulcha
Chandigarh – Butter Chicken, Tandoori Chicken, Mutton Pulao
Haryana – Kachri ki Sabzi, Cholia (Green gram), Chaach – Lassi, Bajre ki Khichdi
Delhi – Chaat, Tandoori Chicken, Paranthe, Naugauri-Halwa, Chole Bhature
Rajasthan – Dal-Baati-Churma, Her-Sangari, Lal Maas Gatte, Pyaaz ki Kachori
Gujarat – Thepla, Dhokla, Khandvi, Handvo, Panki
Madhya Pradesh – Lapsi, Bafla, Bhutte ki Khees, Bhopali kababs
Maharashtra – Shrikhand, Thalipeeth, Vada Pao, Modak
Goa – Vindaloo, Xacuti, Bibinca, Prawn Balchao
Karnataka – Bisi Bele Bhaat, Kesari Bhaat, Mysore Pak, Dharwad Pedha, Chiroti
Kerala – Sadya meal, Avial, Malabar Parotha, Payasam, Irachi Stew
Tamil Nadu – Appam, Dosai, Idli, Sambhar, Rasam, Chettinad chicken, Pongal
Pondicherry – Kadugu Yerra, Vendakkai Patchaddy
Andhra Pradesh – Hyderabadi Biryani, Mirchi ka Salan, Ghongura Pickle, Korikoora
Chattisgarh – Bafauri (a sweet made with chana dal), Kusli (a sweet made with flour and semolina), Red Ant chutney
Orissa – Fish Orly, Khirmohan, Rasabali, Chhenapodapitha
West Bengal – Bhapa Illish, Rosogulla, Mishti Doi
Himachal Pradesh – Sidu, Aktori and Dham (a vegetarian mid-day meal cooked by Boti Brahmins)
Uttarakhand – Aloo ke Gutke, Kaapa, Jhangora (millets) ki Kheer, Chainsoo
Uttar Pradesh – Kababs, Biryanis, Bedmi Aloo Kachori, Halwa, Benarasi Chaat
Jharkhand – Thekua, Pittha, Marua-ka-Roti
Bihar – Litti (baked balls of wheat), Sattu (ground gram), Khaja, Khubi ka Lai, Anarasa, Tilkut
Sikkim – Momos, Thukpa, Gundruk, Phagshapa and Sael Roti
Manipur – Iromba, Kabok, Chakkouba
Nagaland – Momos, Rice Beer and Cherry Wine
Assam – Maasor Tenga, Pitha
Arunachal Pradesh – Apong (local beer)
Meghalaya – Jadoh, kyat (local beer)
Tripura – Chakhwi, Mwkhwi, Muitri
Mizoram – Zu (a special tea)
I know some of the names do not mean anything right now but am sure enthusiasts would take the trouble to find out what each means.
Disclaimer: This data was NOT painstakingly compiled by yours truly. This was sent to me by someone who knows me well. :)