Monday, April 11, 2011

What Then?

It was 2:15 pm and he finally decided to get some lunch. It was a departure from his usual routine – he almost always carried food from home unless there were advance plans made to have lunch out of office.

 
Last night, for some reason, he did not feel like it and so told the maid to not pack lunch for him and that he would eat out. But now, lunchtime was already past and he was still not feeling too hungry. But he had to eat so here he was walking towards the elevators.


Just below his office building was a sidewalk lining the main express highway which passed through his city and ever since these office buildings had come up, this sidewalk was crammed with small eateries selling all the possible street food you could think of. Sandwiches, scrambled eggs, road-side Chinese food, South Indian snacks, butter-milk, fresh fruit juices, coconut water, tea – you name it and it was available in some shape or form!


When he stepped out of the building, he was hit by a blast of hot air just like it would be in a furnace. It must be close to 40 degrees, he thought, and loosened his tie. To top that up the length of the sidewalk on the highway side was being dug up for laying some underground cables and this was adding to the discomfort in terms of fine dust layering every possible surface and every breath people took.


He walked carefully, picking his way amidst the big and small rubble lying all around and climbed onto the sidewalk heading towards the sandwich stall he usually patronized, if ever. When he reached it, he realized that was hardly any place to stand, seeing that the stall itself covered most of the available space and the huge mound of dug up earth and stones blocked his way on the other side.


He ordered his sandwich and stood to a side while it was being made looking at the work going on. The other side of the piled up earth was taken up by an enormous pit, in which huge black metal pipes had been laid. His sandwich was now ready and after layering it with ketchup, he settled back to eat it. That’s when he noticed them.


The labourers who were digging out the mud and stones from the pit had also taken their break to eat lunch and were sitting on top of the mud pile they had made. From where he was standing he could see a father, mother and 3 kids, none of who was above 5 years. They were eating a little rice and some daal that was kept in an old newspaper. The couple had made 2 small piles of rice, one for themselves and one for the kids and they were partaking of it together.


He saw that both parents were covered with dust and sweat was falling off their brow in constant streams. Their meal hardly took any time and the parents immediately lay down on a small length of cloth for a brief siesta before their next back-breaking session.


The 3 kids were now left to their own devices and the oldest and the next oldest, both boys started playing in the mud with a piece of string. The youngest was a girl, not older than three years old. All of them were wearing clothes a little too small for them and those too were torn and frayed. The baby girl was caked in wet mud all over and had snot running down her nose. She continued to roll in the mud and as he watched, the oldest kid deftly reached out clutched her little ankle preventing her fall on top of the pipe in the pit.


The scene hit him hard; he was father to a 2-year old girl himself and he knew very well the emotions that go through a parent regarding the well being of their own flesh and blood. He and his loving wife had sit through nights when their little one had high fever feeling helpless about not being able to do anything to bring down the temperature in spite of being so well to do. He had gut-wrenching experiences when she fell on her knees in her constant quest to explore the world around and reach places where she was not supposed to be.


He had just seen how these hard working labourers had fed their three children and even then were hard up to make sure that it was a satisfying meal. They didn’t even know where their next meal would be coming from – their parents were day-wage workers and lived from day to day though they were honest and resourceful. But he could see the expressions of these children surrounded by the mud and squalor; they were peaceful faces, faces which retained a winning smile along with everything, in spite of everything.


Again he was overcome with the same helpless feeling when he looked at the baby girl on the heap of mud with her two older brothers forming a protective circle around her even as they played. Looking away, he ordered for a bunch of sandwiches to be packed up. Paying for them and taking the plastic carry bag with the sandwiches, he climbed up the mound where the parents lay in the deep slumber of the exhausted. He gently placed the bag next to them. Then he dipped into his wallet and found three hundred rupee notes, which was all he had at that point, folded them and tucked them into the bag. He knew that the oldest boy had noticed and he gestured to him to make sure the bag was safe.


He quickly walked away towards the office building but couldn’t resist looking back one last time. His last view was of the three children sitting together and smiling at something the little one had done. He might have made that one day for that family. But what then……..?????????

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What can we do to alleviate the situation for thousands of such families who are essentially honest, hard-working but are nomadic in nature and live on day-to-day labour as and when they get some work. One time help rendered by the protaganist above may serve to bring about a brief respite for these people as also reduce the guilt people like us might feel when we witness such moments - but in the long run, is but a drop in the ocean.

Friday, April 01, 2011

Books I own, but have not read.....

Not a very impressive way of reviving my blog, I must admit. But at the same time, cataloguing the books I own has been such an enjoyable activity that I couldn't resist this!


I've always thought myself to be a very avid reader (in fact, I still think that) but I just realized that I'm just as avid a book collector. I just cannot enter a bookstore and leave without having loosened my purse strings just that little bit. This has made me very wary of being in the vicinity of one off late considering that my financial status post doing up my home has sadly dwindled. S and me often dream of that day when we both can just enter Crossword or Landmark or and pick up books we want to without even thinking of their prices. Sigh.......


Anyway, coming back to the matter I am writing this post for, my finished catalog tells me that I own at least 93 books which I have not yet read!!! 93!! Can you beat that? Am not very happy about it but at least now I have a defined "to read" list.


Yes, you got that right - if you have managed to read this post till this point, you are going to be subjected to going through the list of 93 books that Sachin owns but has not yet read. So here goes:


The Complete Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Adams, Douglas


The Eleventh Commandment by Archer, Jeffrey


Paths of Glory by Archer, Jeffrey


The Mammoth Book of Dickensian Whodunits by Ashley, Mike


The Mammoth Book of Fantasy by Ashley, Mike


Jonathon Livingston Seagull by Bach, Richard


Split Second by Baldacci, David


The Slayer of Kamsa by Banker, Ashok


The Japanese Wife by Basu, Kunal


The 3 Mistakes of my Life by Bhagat, Chetan


If I am Assassinated by Bhutto, Zulfikar Ali


The Best of Ruskin Bond by Bond, Ruskin


Carpet Sahib by Booth, Martin


Mirror Image by Brown, Sandra


Command the Morning by Buck, Pearl S.


The Power of Creative Intelligence by Buzan, Tony


How to Mind Map by Buzan, Tony


Witness for the Prosecution & Selected Plays by Christie, Agatha


The Mirror crack'd from Side to Side by Christie, Agatha


Partners in Crime by Christie, Agatha


I'll Be Seeing You by Clark, Mary Higgins


No Place Like Home by Clark, Mary Higgins


The Darkest Fear by Cohen, Harlan


The Second Jim Corbett Omnibus by Corbett, Jim


Postmortem by Cornwell, Patricia


Cause of Death by Cornwell, Patricia


Portrait of a Killer: Jack the Ripper - Case Closed by Cornwell, Patricia


Gorky Park + Nightwing by Cruz, Martin Smith


The Best of Roald Dahl by Dahl, Roald


The Snow Leopard Adventure by Dalal, Deepak


Great Expectations by Dickens, Charles


Other Challenger Stories by Doyle, Arthur Conan


The Maracott Deep by Doyle, Arthur Conan


Mill on the Floss by Eliot, George


Banker by Francis, Dick


The Diary of a Young Girl by Frank, Anne


The Case of the Careless Kitten by Gardner, Erle Stanley


Blink by Gladwell, Malcolm


Lord of the Flies by Golding, William


Stone of Tears by Goodkind, Terry


Blood of the Fold by Goodkind, Terry


Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by Gray, John


Classic Mystery Stories by Greene


Shyam (in Marathi) by Guruji, Sane


A Spot of Bother by Haddon, Mark


King Solomon's Mines by Haggard, H. Rider


Airport by Hailey, Arthur


A Second Chance at Eden by Hamilton, Peter F.


Hannibal by Harris, Thomas


Catch 22 by Heller, Joseph


The Dash to Khartoum by Henry, G A


Most Wanted - The First Line Up by Hitchcock, Alfred


It by King, Stephen


Duma Key by King, Stephen


Indian Stories by Kipling, Rudyard


Oh Shit Not Again by Kokate, Mandar


The Prophecy by Kuzneski, Chris


The Arraignment by Martini, Steve


The Best Short Stories by Maupassant, Guy de


Twilight by Meyer, Stephanie


Caribbean by Michener, James


Hawaii by Michener, James


Lore & Legends of Kerala by Narayanan, T C


An Outline of American History by Olson, Prof. Keith W.


Jaya, an illustrated reading of the Mahabharata by Pattanaik, Devadutta


The Complete Short Stories of Edgar Allan Poe by Poe, Edgar Allan


Fools Die by Puzo, Mario


The New Army by Ranjan, Rajiva


Shriman Yogi (in Marathi) by Ranjit Desai


The Complete Adventures of Feluda by Ray, Satyajit


Midnight's Children by Rushdie, Salman


A Situation in New Delhi by Sahgal, Nayantara


Hauntings by Samanta, Suchitra


The Rozabal Line by Sanghi, Ashwin


The Last Song of Dusk by Sanghvi, Siddharth Dhanvant


Shivaji and his Times by Sarkar, Jadunath


FIELD by Sathe, Rajiv & Shenoy, Vinayak


Airport 77 by Scheff, Michael & Spector, David


The Complete Works of William Shakespeare by Shakespeare, William


Gold Mine + Monsoon by Smith, Wilbur


The Amulet of Samarkand by Stroud, Jonathon


Golem's Eye by Stroud, Jonathon


Ptolemy's Gate by Stroud, Jonathon


ET Traveller - 101 best holidays this season by Timesgroup


Unfinished Tales by Tolkien, JRR


Sigurd & Gudrun by Tolkien, JRR


Great Sea Stories by Various Authors


Great Short Stories by Various Authors


The Mysterious Island by Verne, Jules


Conversations with God - Book 1 by Walsch, Neale Donald


Conversations with God - Book 2 by Walsch, Neale Donald


Pappillon by Charriere, Henri


Yes, before anybody tells me, I do know that this is a completely assorted set of tomes and there is no real reason I've not read them. Enough said - hopefully next time I'll be able to post a few reviews of some of the better ones amongst these. I am back! :)


P.S. Just so you know, currently am reading "Unfinished Tales" by JRR Tolkien....

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Isi Life Mein - Youth is calling!

Youth is defined by Wikipedia as the “time of life between childhood and adulthood (maturity)". To my mind, this definition is a very loose one and youth means a lot more. Youth is not an indicator of just the age; it is a state of mind. It denotes an entire way of life and one that is not obstructed by pre-ordained or old notions.

Robert Kennedy said “This world demands the qualities of youth: not a time of life but a state of mind, a temper of the will, a quality of imagination, a predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over the life of ease.” That to me defines precisely what the youth of today stand for.

Coming to the big screen this December is the latest offering from the Rajshri stables, “Isi Life Mein”. Without spoiling any surprises and giving out the story, let me just say that the movie promises to exude youthfulness in all its glory.

The title of the movie screams it out loud and clear: Most of us have just this one life (if we’re lucky, that is) and we have to make the most of it within our allotted life span.

Whether we accept it or not, most of us have that one dream – this dream could be anything, be it going to space, becoming a scientist, a world renowned musician etc. And these dreams get created since the time the coils in our minds get well oiled to life on earth. The majority manage to get through their lives and let their dreams drown in the routine of “growing up” (akin to the poor pickles in a dinner plate being heaped with the other and more happening buffet items) and get into the usual rut of what society feels is the way to be (quote unquote). And then there are those very select few who live with a single minded objective of achieving what they want – it is for such people that Rhonda Brynes “Secret” holds true; the universe conspires to help them get where they want to be.

“Isi Life Mein” is a reminder of what the youth of today stand for; they have a dream and they go for it with all they have. Along the pathway to glory, there are many words going against them, mostly from well meaning but ill informed sources in the form of parents, elders and well wishers. The trick is to be able to separate the grain from the chaff and that is what our youngsters are best at. You can count on them to be able to find the best solutions to all their problems as long as the proper means are visible.

At the same time, the Indianness element is very strongly ingrained in our youth and you would see that in spite of setting out to achieve what they want to, tradition and culture still figure on their list of “In” things.

Another moot point is that it takes one to know one. Its amazing how two people who have disparate aims in life can act as catalysts to each other and just by sheer dint of being there when it counts, can help the other succeed. The best part is that they don’t even need to share similarities in terms of background, upbringing or caste and creed. It’s the common resolve of wanting to get some place (not figuratively) that binds them on common ground.

Youth movies have been done to death, some good, some bad and some ugly. What differs is the treatment of the topic and this time round, Rajshri showcases something different. “Isi Life Mein” has 2 young people making their debut with a young woman at the director’s helm. With such a strong youth quotient in play and given the track record of young director’s in the recent past, this one should be a must-watch for all those new age movie viewers with a discerning eye. I have a feeling Robert Kennedy would have watched this one and said, “This is EXACTLY what I meant!!” So go watch this one and celebrate the determination of our youth – Dec 24th is the date and I will definitely be out there in line with many others. Cast and crew of ILM, good luck & best wishes!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Independence?

63 years of independence and we are still craving for real freedom.

Let's make this year the year when we take steps to be able to call ourselves truly free.

Our country is poised on the brink of destiny; there are a million things we have going for us in all spheres of life. Likewise there are quite a few deterrants which, if we let them, can pull us back into the abyss.

As always, its all upto us! We, the people. We have to make that one choice. So make it now and make it count.

While not a perfect analogy, a few lines from a song in "Taare Zameen Par" come to mind:

Khul gaya aasmaan ka rasta dekho khul gaya
Mil gaya kho gaya tha jo sitara mil gaya

Roshan hui saari zameen
Jagmag hua saara jahaan
Oh udne ko tu aazad hai
bandhan koi ab hai kahan...

That says it for me. Here's to independence. Jai Hind!
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Sunday, August 08, 2010

You make my day....

You make my day….

You make my day when I see you give me a loving look – one that only I understand…

You make my day when I see you laugh aloud at something I’ve said and you’ve found funny…

You make my day when you tell me that I’m looking good….You make my day when you tell me that you are hungry or you want to eat something specific and when I’m able to get it for you….in fact you make my day even when you just tell me you’re hungry…

You make my day when you send me even a single line sms….You make my day when you look deep into my eyes and all I can see is love and affection….

You make my day when you get me something useful when I’m least expecting it…

You make my day when you are so concerned about my well being….

You make my day when you share normal everyday events of your day with me…..

You make my day when you remember words we’ve exchanged or moments we’ve shared and happily remind me of them….

You make my day when you just simply hold my hand in yours…..

You make my day when you behave like a child who wants to be pampered….also when you pamper me sometimes….

You make my day when you ask me to help you with little things that you find it tough to do….

You make my day when I see you bond with my close friends and make them your own too….

My day is made when we share small things that give us joy, a good book or movie, a game, discussions about our friends and loved ones, or simply appreciate something beautiful...

My day is made when I see the divine little being that is lil S….just knowing she will forever be a part of us…

I could go on and on but even the few things I’ve listed here are enough to make every day of my life so worth it…..

Please keep making my day…..just by being you…..

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Happy Birthday, Sherry!

Happy Birthday Sherry!!!

Two days back you completed one glorious month on planet Earth. While you might not have realized it yet, you have changed both Mommy's and Daddy's life in more ways that you could ever imagine. Now, it is very difficult to imagine what we were like before you came. Life has turned a full circle and we are so thankful to have you with us.

Your first month has been filled with special moments, moments that we keep trying to capture forever. While we were partly successful there are many such moments that will live on in our memories always. I never thought I could spend hours looking at someone sleep and still not get bored and in fact, that it would be such a treat to watch. I have sat for those hours watching those tiny flickers of expressions on your beautiful face, yet so innocent and untouched. You smile, you cry, you pucker your lips, you stretch like a tiny cat, you go all red from the effort of stretching, you wipe your face, you frown, you arch your eyebrows..... these are just a few of the many other things you do when you sleep, all of these get transposed on my mind to be retained forever.

Many people over the centuries have waxed about the pleasures of being a father or parent. I've read about the feeling in so many different places myself. But I could have never imagined the profound emotions that run through me when I hold you in my arms. You feel so fragile, delicate and pretty that I am scared I might inadvertently hurt you. Affection that I never knew existed within me flows through just for you. I know that these moments will never come back again and what we are sharing now is something special, a bond that will never go away.

You have brought so much joy to us all, including your grandparents (both sets of them), your chacha and your maasi. It is both so funny and endearing to see them all watch you with the same moony expression. In a way, you have strengthened the love that always existed between all of us. Thank you for that, baby!

Am looking forward to the years to come which I am sure will be made special by you in one way or the other. Cheers to that!!!

Love,
Daddy

What does it take to be nice?

What does it take to be nice? Is it really that difficult to be nice to others? Why are there so many around us who behave as if to be nice to someone takes a lot out of them. Being made by the same Maker, I would have thought all of us would be blessed with the ability to bring a smile to a fellow being. But no, whereever you go, you end up getting stressed, irritated, peeved, angered, aggravated and hostile - and all of this due to how other people treat you.

Let me try and ask some questions as to what it would take for someone to be "nice" in certain situations:
1. What does it take to smile and say "thank you" to the rickshaw / taxi driver who drops you to where you want to go? Agreed, you have paid him his due fare but even then, what does a smile cost you?

2. What does it take to get up and offer your seat to a senior citizen / a lady whose expecting or lady with too many bags / a small child in a crowded bus or train when you yourself might be better off than them?

3. What does it take it stop your vehicle for a moment and allow people trying to get across a busy intersection on foot to cross over?

4. How much would it cost for you to hold the door open for the person coming right behind you while entering any place especially when you know the door is going to abruptly swing back after you have passed through?

5. Is it really difficult to not reach negatively after certain people say something not so nice about someone behind their backs and instead clarify the issue out with the individual in question?

6. How tough would it be for you to own up to something you were responsible for rather than passing the blame on to someone who was not even aware of the situation?

7. Would it be very difficult for you to offer your help to someone who was trying to do something you are very good at and they are not at all able to do it?

8. Can you graciously accept a compliment from someone you barely know without first suspecting that person about wanting something from you?

9. How difficult would it be for you to not snap at your loved ones, especially your parents / siblings / spouse when it is YOU who is tired and they ask you something without realizing that you may not be in the mood to answer them then?

10. If someone got something you coveted and did not get, would you be able to feel genuine happiness for that person, especially if they are friends of yours?

11. When was the last time you helped someone without expecting anything back and felt all the better for it?

Am not asking anyone to answer these questions in public. We are all adults and can think like adults. Only thing is some of us either forget it or choose to overlook it sometimes. Its not very evident in day-to-day life but the person who can honestly do all of the above is a much happier person.
Would love to hear your opinions because frankly, one does not see too much of niceness (I know this is not a word but I guess you know what I'm trying to say) these days!!

Sunday, February 01, 2009

A Tag off the beaten track!

With the big event in my life recently, I've been caught up in a whirlwind of emotions. I have been dealing with them the best I can. Thanks to all those congratulatory messages and I completely agree that having a daughter is pure indescribable JOY!!! Oh, to watch her face when she's sleeping and see the tiny shifts of expressions!!! :-)))))) I could go on forever about that but for now, I thought I'd take a breather and post this rather interesting tag I picked up from Pixie's post!
This is a very different tag and makes for a multitude of mirrors in which one can see themselves for what they are. You, my dear readers have to express the answers to the questions below (obviously, the questions are about me) in my comments space. I'd love nothing but the honest truth. Even if it does not make me happy.
Here are the questions:
1. Who are you?
2. Are we friends?
3. Something I have and YOU want?
4. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.
5. Describe me in one word.
6. What was your first impression of me?
7. Do you still think that way about me now?
8. What reminds you of me?
9. If you could give me anything what would it be?
10. How well do you know me?
11. How do you see me in the future?
12. Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't
13. Are you going to post this in your blog and see what I say about you?
So let the answers flow!

Saturday, January 24, 2009

The Second Woman in my life!!!!!!

Shocking but true! Am not the kind to mince words. I say it as it is. So if I say there is a second woman in my life, I mean it!

Ok, ok, I can't hold it back anymore! This mystery woman is none other than my cute little 2.65 kg bundle of joy who made her presence felt in this world at exactly 3:57 pm!!! And yes, while I am still not expressing it and shouting it from the rooftops, I am ecstatic with pure unadulaterated joy!! :-)

I can't express the feeling when I cradled the tiny helpless little being in my arms for the very first time! I had a lump in my throat when I saw those perfectly formed contours - the eyes, the pursed lips, the fingers and well everything.

So there it is, out in the open, my "other" woman! Cheers!!!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Another Award

Thanks Pixie for bestowing "The Butterfly Award" on me! :-) Though I really don't know how "cool" my blog is!







The rules for this are:

1. Put the logo on your blog

2. Add a link to the person who awarded you.

3. Nominate 10 other blogs.

4. Add links to those blogs on yours.

5. Leave a message for your nominees on their blogs.

So here goes:
1. Shruthi

2. Kavita

3. Lak

4. Galadriel

5. Lemonade

6. Uber-T

Above are 6 of the coolest I know, be it blog or person. And of course Pixie, you too! So, come and pick up your awards. :)

Thursday, January 01, 2009

Hello 2009!

Another year flashes by! Changes the lives of countless human beings, some for the better and some for the worse. And still times passes by - inexorably.

And it is our lot as human beings to make what we can out of it.

Enough of thinking and rationalizing. Enough of contemplating over what has been. Enough of new year resolutions that are broken within the first month of the year.

Its time to look ahead. Time to make a fresh start. Time to make our presence felt. Time to bring a smile onto the faces of those who haven't seen those many.

Simple things, small efforts. That's all it will take from so called "thinking" individuals like us. But the results will be there for everyone to see. A smile passing from one face to another. Travelling a whole sea of people - a literal revolution of happiness. That's my buzz word for 2009. A smile for everyone.

Happy New Year to all. May this year bring peace, love and happiness to all of you. Keep smiling. :) there I've started it. I feel better for it now. :)

Friday, December 26, 2008

My 1st Blogger Awards!

I have been reading blogs for almost 4 years now and I used to keep seeing some exceptional blogs being awarded blogger awards for best layout, best content etc.

And it made me wonder if someone would ever think me good enough to give me an award in any category at all. Pixie has been kind enough to pass on 2 awards to me:








And,






While this may seem funny, but it sure is a tough thing to live up to reputations and a reputation (good or bad) is one thing you do build when you maintain a blog with any kind of readership (in my case, a miniscule but precious one!). So all I can say is that I'll do my best to be more active on here. I've suddenly realized what a powerful medium this of getting my thoughts across and inviting thoughts from others.

And of course I want to pass this award on to a few bloggers I think deserve these and many more:

Shruthi (I really don't need to say why, her blog says it all)
Galadriel (hers is a extremely thoughtful blog)
Lemonade (I was never as articulate when I was her age)
Pixie (just for giving me the awards - lol, am joking, she has a amazing way of using the most simple language of getting her points across with force)
Uber-T (extremely clued in guy - his posts are really classy; be it technology or general, I like the way his opinion seems to carry a lot of weight)

Compliments of the season to all! :-)

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas!

When I was out for my usual morning walk today, I saw the usual Christmas stars and festoons all around my colony. That is certainly not a surprise seeing the colony I stay in has pre-dominantly people of the Christian faith.

While I continued my walk / jog, my mind flew back to the days when I was in school. Mine was a convent school and for boys only at that. Christmas was a big deal in the school and since the Christmas vacation was usually given from Dec 24th to Jan 1st, the Christmas celebration was held either on the 23rd or the last school day prior to the 24th.

I remember that day with fond memories. We all used to wait for that day with bated breath. It did not matter that my school comprised of as many non Catholics as Catholics. The spirit of the day got to us all in equal measure.

The day used to start with a couple of periods which noone really minded as we all knew what was to follow. At around 9 am there would be an announcement on the PA system asking us to assemble in the school's open air auditorium at sharp 9.20. Before we left the class however, we were given a goodie bag each; this usually contained a samosa, a pattice, a Monginis Slice Cake, some sweets, a Mango Frooti tetrapack and a small Christmas present.simple stuff but we still loved it - goes to show that even then we appreciated the spirit of the occassion. Lugging this bag and / or munching on the snacks, we would file into the auditorium with our class teachers making sure we behaved ourselves.

In the audi, which was really open air with a big covered stage at one end, we would be seated on rugs on the ground itself. On such days, the lucky ones were those whose classes were led out first and so got the front rows. In about 5 mins time, when all of us were settled, the curtain would go up. The first item on the agenda was always the principal's address. It was always based on some element of Christmas be it goodness, piety, kindness etc. He sure held our attention for those 15 to 20 mins!

The speech was followed by the traditional Cristmas play depicting the birth of Jesus Christ. All the works were there, cows, goats, sheep, donkeys, the 3 wise men, some people of different nationalities etc etc. All the props used in the play were made by the students themselves.

An interesting (I hope) aside: yours truly made his stage debut (and exit as well) in one of these productions when in the 6th standard. This role of a lifetime had me essay the character of a donkey, yes you read right, in the play. The specifics of the part required me wear this huge face fask (again, made by me at home and yes, it did look like a donkey's face), kneel on all fours in the manger, next to Christ's crib along with a cow, a sheep and some goats and sway my head from left to right throughout the duration of the play. To top it all, I actually enjoyed myself though my knees were sore at the end of it. :)

In any case, the play was always well received and was the highlight of the morning. We watched the same sequence every year but never got tired of it. It was always a joy to watch Christ come into the world.

Post the play, there would be some musical performances by some gifted pupils. I particularly remember a tabla performance by one of my batchmates as being exceptionally brilliant! Usually after these, the principal and the headmistress would would wish us a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year signifying the end of the day and the start of the vacation. And we would rush home to spread the cheer.

Nothing extravagant but even then it filled our young hearts with joy. I guess it is that very same joy which persists in my heart even today. That very same joy which still warms my being every Christmas, that makes Christmas special! Merry Christmas! Peace and love be with you!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Motherhood?

Over the years, I have seen quite a few couples arguing about who has it easier - a man or a woman. Both have their own views about the matter and there argument never ends.

Off late, I've realized that there is yet another angle to this story. Something a guy can only ever imagine but never really be a part of (unless he goes way out to make it happen). Motherhood! The actual experience of carrying a real living being inside your body for 9 months.

Off late, I've started wondering what it would feel like to feel those little movements within yourself - movements not controlled or made by you. Movements that keep reminding you that you are never really alone. There is someone with you who depends entirely on you. Someone who is created completely from you and yet completely separate from you. Someone living, someone who in about a year's time would have a distinct identity in our world, who would leave his or her mark wherever they go.

We, as men, can only be part of this life altering experience second hand. Maybe feel the movements by placing a gentle hand against our wives' womb. But we can never get that feeling of astonishment, glee, exhilaration, warmth and the bond of privacy that a mother can with her unborn child. It is something we can imagine, maybe yearn for but never achieve. Unless, as I've pointed out before, you go the way where maybe only one man has gone before (we read recently about a gay guy pregnant for the second time). And that is something which is open for speculation - as to how many men, given the opportunity would even want to think of doing something of that kind.

This post is dedicated to all those women who have or will give birth! I at least, think you're privileged.

Recent Acquisitions

  • The latest from J. K. Rowling's stable - The Tales of Beedle The Bard
  • Free with the above - Magnificient Beasts & Where To Find Them (this is an abridged version of the text book with the same name prescribed at Hogwarts for Care of Magical Creatures class)
  • A Suitable Boy - by Vikram Seth
  • All 3 books in the Bartimaeus trilogy by Jonathan Stroud viz. The Amulet of Samarkand, The Golem's Eye & Ptolemy's Gate
  • Lashkar - by Mukul Deva
  • Duma Key - by Stephen King

Am sure there are some more that I'm missing out now seeing am awfully sleepy! So many books to read and so little time... sigh! :-)

Thursday, November 27, 2008

A city under ransom!

Anguish! Horror! Anger! Sadness! Impotence! Sorrow!

All these feelings and more. Once more, terror has jolted us out of our existence and made its presence felt. A miniscule group of heavily armed militants are holding a city of more than 3 million to ransom.

No one knows to what end. Television channels keep reporting about 100 people held hostage at the Taj and Trident hotels. But what about the families of those inside. What of the lakhs of Mumbaikars as also the countless Indians who are so affected by this? All of our lives are at a standstill until this issue goes to its logical conclusion.

A feeling of helplessness pervades. Numbness to how close this has been.

Last night around 8.45 pm I drove from my office in Vakola to my home in Borivli passing along the Western Express Highway. Exactly 50 minutes after I'd passed the spot, a taxi exploded with a bomb of immense proportions there. The remains if one could call them remains shown on TV were so gruesome I can only imagine the intentions of the perpetrators.

About 10 months back, my previous organzation had organized its annual sales convention on board the Superstar Libra cruiseliner. We were in total a group of 1600 in number and were to board the ship from the Green Gate at Mumbai docks. Since the boarding was to happen only at 6 pm, we were in the interim all waiting in the Grand Ballroom at the very Oberoi which since yesterday has been stormed by terrorists. Likewise the Taj has been something we've always looked upto, aspired to enter someday on our own steam, a landmark of sorts.

And now this, the unbelievable but unshakeable truth about all 3 locations.

We've spent the whole day at home glued to the TV seeing the horror unfold, hoping and praying a semblance of normalcy returns. My folks are wary about my going to work even tomorrow. What kind of lives are we leading when even our day to day life is so affected on such a regular basis.

So many lives lost, so many injured and so many affected. Will all this ever end? I don't know. I guess noone really answer this for me. All I can think of is what we can do to mitigate risks as these. Is there a permenant solution? Again I don't know, but I would surely like to know what you feel about all this.

Let's hope the brave men and women battling even as I type this emerge the victors without any further losses.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

I, Me, Myself

I picked this one up from Anumita's blog:
I am: too naive for my liking
I think: and remember lost times and places and people long gone by
I know: when someone close is down without them needing to tell me
I want: to meet my close friends more often, wherever they may be in the world
I have: a beautiful family!
I wish: to lose more weight and get into my ideal weight range
I hate: loudmouths, liars, harsh lights while driving, insincerity and people spitting on streets
I miss: my childhood
I fear: losing my loved ones
I feel: the need to indulge more time into my hobbies
I hear: too many abuses on the roads these days
I smell: the scent of freshly brewed coffee right now
I crave: for mom's prawn curry which unfortunately I am supposed to avoid at present
I search: for happiness in all the small things of the world
I wonder: what it would have been like if I had been a doctor, as was my original ambition as a kid
I regret: about misunderstandings I have had and the angst that it created
I love: my family and everything they mean to me
I ache: when I see a wizened old lady or man begging on the street. How can we do this to them?
I care: about the words I say, lest they prove to be hurtful to someone
I am not: as outgoing as I'm made out to be
I believe: that there are good things still in the world we live in and that they are worth fighting for (quote from LOTR - The Two Towers)
I dance: with abandon not caring who's seeing me
I sing: and get breathless very fast
I cry: very easily when I'm watching touching moments either in reel or real life
I don’t always: feel like talking to the dozen
I fight: whenever I know I am right
I write: because it feels right and gives me a lot of confidence
I win: seldom but with a lot of feeling
I lose: my temper rarely
I never: take anyone for granted, and by that I mean ANYONE
I always: pray before leaving my house in the morning
I confuse: verses of popular songs while I sing them
I listen: more than I speak
I can usually be found: with a book in my hand
I am scared: when I begin anything new, be it a job, relationship or a journey
I need: to know that my efforts are making a difference
I am happy about: what life has given me till now
I imagine: how our country would have been if we did not have so many varying political factions
I tag: anyone who wants to do it - trust me, its fun!!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Things I love!

The easiest way to get out of what I call "writing lethargy" is to do a list - it could be any kind of list; things you hate, memories, odd things about you, best / worst foods....anything at all. It gives you an opportunity to think and write and voila, a post is ready!

Since am still indulging myself in the Diwali atmosphere and there is a general feeling of happiness and contentment in me, this list is of things I love. Ok, I'll even admit, I got inspired seeing a similar post on Pixie's blog.

1. A baby's toothless grin;

2. Someone you care for and miss calling out of the blue;

3. Being part of a Mexican wave in a cricket match at Mumbai's Wankhede stadium;

4. The Friday before a long weekend filled with nice things to do;

5. Leaving office on a weekday evening and finding the roads mysteriously free of traffic;

6. Lying to S about my ETA home from work, beating it by a huge margin and seeing her smile;

7. Receiving a gift; even better, giving a gift; :-)

8. Playing cricket with ollllddddd building friends after ages and still experiencing the same thrill;

9. Discovering a old, much loved but forgotten book somewhere at home & reading it again;

10. The smell of freshly brewed coffee & tea;

11. Tiny little puppies, blind but very much alive!!!;

12. Going to my college campus and sitting on the same bench in the ground where we used to sit after bunking classes;

13. Sitting in the Siddhivinayak temple close to my house in the afternoons; it is so peaceful that all troubles seem to dissolve;

14. The feeling just before going on a long vacation;

15. The feeling just before reaching "home-sweet-home" after the vacation;

16. Holding S's finger while walking in our colony or even crossing the road;

17. Knowing my parents are proud of what their sons are doing;

18. Feeling the sand under my feet on a Goan beach;

19. A night of Pictionary with close friends with a lot of cheating thrown in;

20. Waking early on a holiday, waiting for the others to wake up with a good book in hand;

21. Entering the house and smell the aromas of cooking food and guessing the name of the delicacy;

22. Sitting in a train with loved ones on my way to a destination I have never been to before;

This is not a tag but its always good to read this kind of list for different people. You realize that you actually love so many more things which may not have come to the fore in your own list. So go for it and let me know when you write yours! Wishing everyone a very Happy Diwali (belated) and a great year to follow!!!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Is It Worth it????

"There is some good in this world.......and its worth fighting for!!!"

This is one of the closing dialogues in one of my favourite movies: The Lord of the Rings - The Two Towers, spoken by Sam Gamgee to Frodo Baggins. And it never fails to touch me, however many times I hear it.

In today's world, everyday one hears mostly about terrorist acts in some place on the globe. There are everyday acts of crime taking place in broad daylight. Administration is going to the dogs. Politics is supposed to be one of the most corrupt professions in the country. And corruption has not spared any other professions too, be it sport, medicine, industry, cinema etc. Most of our cities wallow in filth, bad roads, bad infrastructure; you name it and you will find it. Rural India and in some cases urban as well is still rife with instances of dowry burnings, female infanticide, child marriages. In our metros, youngsters are going the way of rave parties, drugs, underage sex and every such vice which is considered "hip" and "cool". Citizens complain of lack of basic amenities, crowded roads & public transport, of how the government is not doing anything at all to better the situation. In short, its chaos everywhere you look.


In the midst of such times, it is so very easy to get disillusioned. Its very easy to get cynical and go with the flow. The feeling of "does it really matter what I think, what difference does it make anyway" supercedes everything else. And one more brain, one more heart falls into the trap of so-called civilization as we know it.

And even then you find a few people who do not take things at face value. People who are affected by the same issues as the rest but who have chosen to handle them differently. Are these individuals made of a different mettle than most? Do they have some special powers that help them think differently?


The answer is NO. They are the same as all of us. They are no different in any possible way you can think of. Its only that they believe in the fact that there is still a chance to make a difference, to bring about a positive change in the system. That small things go on to contribute to the larger whole. That we are still not beyond redemption. Which is where the line I started with comes in.


This is the line I get reminded of when:


1. I see a baby's toothless grin


2. A completely unknown person gives me a hand to pull me into a running train

3. Destitute children burning the midnight lamp (literally) to study after a day long job


4. A brash collegian driving a vehicle at 90 kmph stopping to allow a old lady to cross the street

5. Seeing a little girl sell flowers or some such thing at a traffic signal & still have a dazzling smile reminiscent of a Bollywood beauty.

6. The way Mumbaikar's reached out to help stranded people during the recent and not so recent catastrophes like the July 26th floods and the Mumbai serial blasts.

7. How one can always find 2-3 helping hands ready to help you push your stranded vehicle.

8. The motive for the umpteen number of individuals who have devoted their lives solely to make this world a better place to live in.

All these and many more splashes of bright colours in an otherwise drab and flawed world make it worth the effort! Because every little deed contributes to the larger good.

Let us also make an attempt to add some colour in whatever way possible. While on its own, it may not be something significant enough to be noticed by the whole world, at least within our own self we would know that it was all worth it and someplace someone would have a smile on their face! :-)


Wednesday, August 20, 2008

National Integration at its Yummiest!

One thing most people have in common is the love for good food. Some have it in more degree and some have it in a lesser degree but it’s always there. Having said that, how many of us can actually boast of having tried delicacies from all over the length and breadth of our country? Not many, I am sure.

In any case, it would be great to know what the “must eat” dishes from different states are because if in case you do get the chance to visit sometime, you should be able to ask for those yourself.

The list below is dedicated to all those foodies who do not mind seeking out the most obscure places in order to sample the local cuisine. J For easier reference, it has been categorized state-wise.

Kashmir – Gustaba, Tabak Maz, Dum Aloo, Haak or Karam ka Saag

Punjab – Dal Makhani, Makki di Roti – Sarson da Saag, Chana – Bhatura, Amritsari Macchi and Kulcha

Chandigarh – Butter Chicken, Tandoori Chicken, Mutton Pulao

Haryana – Kachri ki Sabzi, Cholia (Green gram), Chaach – Lassi, Bajre ki Khichdi

Delhi – Chaat, Tandoori Chicken, Paranthe, Naugauri-Halwa, Chole Bhature

Rajasthan – Dal-Baati-Churma, Her-Sangari, Lal Maas Gatte, Pyaaz ki Kachori

Gujarat – Thepla, Dhokla, Khandvi, Handvo, Panki

Madhya Pradesh – Lapsi, Bafla, Bhutte ki Khees, Bhopali kababs

Maharashtra – Shrikhand, Thalipeeth, Vada Pao, Modak

Goa – Vindaloo, Xacuti, Bibinca, Prawn Balchao

Karnataka – Bisi Bele Bhaat, Kesari Bhaat, Mysore Pak, Dharwad Pedha, Chiroti

Kerala – Sadya meal, Avial, Malabar Parotha, Payasam, Irachi Stew

Tamil Nadu – Appam, Dosai, Idli, Sambhar, Rasam, Chettinad chicken, Pongal

Pondicherry – Kadugu Yerra, Vendakkai Patchaddy

Andhra Pradesh
– Hyderabadi Biryani, Mirchi ka Salan, Ghongura Pickle, Korikoora

Chattisgarh – Bafauri (a sweet made with chana dal), Kusli (a sweet made with flour and semolina), Red Ant chutney

Orissa – Fish Orly, Khirmohan, Rasabali, Chhenapodapitha

West Bengal – Bhapa Illish, Rosogulla, Mishti Doi

Himachal Pradesh
– Sidu, Aktori and Dham (a vegetarian mid-day meal cooked by Boti Brahmins)

Uttarakhand – Aloo ke Gutke, Kaapa, Jhangora (millets) ki Kheer, Chainsoo

Uttar Pradesh – Kababs, Biryanis, Bedmi Aloo Kachori, Halwa, Benarasi Chaat

Jharkhand – Thekua, Pittha, Marua-ka-Roti

Bihar – Litti (baked balls of wheat), Sattu (ground gram), Khaja, Khubi ka Lai, Anarasa, Tilkut

Sikkim – Momos, Thukpa, Gundruk, Phagshapa and Sael Roti

Manipur – Iromba, Kabok, Chakkouba

Nagaland – Momos, Rice Beer and Cherry Wine

Assam – Maasor Tenga, Pitha

Arunachal Pradesh – Apong (local beer)

Meghalaya – Jadoh, kyat (local beer)

Tripura – Chakhwi, Mwkhwi, Muitri

Mizoram – Zu (a special tea)

I know some of the names do not mean anything right now but am sure enthusiasts would take the trouble to find out what each means.

Disclaimer: This data was NOT painstakingly compiled by yours truly. This was sent to me by someone who knows me well. :)